I was able to build up my confidence in social settings. College was much more relaxed than school, and more of an understanding environment. I went to co-educational college, and it was here that I really began to step out of my shell. I was at an all boy’s school at the time, and was trying to figure out my sexuality, as well as being on the spectrum. I think this was exacerbated by being gay. I found it difficult to keep up with my peer group.
This then led to a diagnosis.īefore I was diagnosed, I really struggled academically and socially. This was picked up by my school teachers, who let my parents know. It was quite clear I was autistic early on. I found it difficult to communicate with others in a meaningful way, and to make friends. I was in lower sets at school, and I was quite insular. I definitely knew I was autistic before I knew I was gay. I was diagnosed in 2008, so I would’ve just started secondary school at the time. Tom chatted to us about coming out, his identity as a gay autistic man, and dispelling autism stereotypes.
With Pride Month in full swing, we catch up with Tom Moran, autistic man and a future trainee solicitor. To celebrate Pride Month in the UK, we’re interviewing autistic members of the LGBTQ+ community. Gift Aid and making your donation go further Our patron, president and vice presidents
